Nigerian Pastor’s Wife Reveals: ‘How I Almost Married a Man with Micro P€nis’ – Advises Women to Ask About Sexual Compatibility Before Marriage

A Nigerian pastor’s wife and lawyer, Princess Jemaimah, has opened up about the importance of sexual compatibility in courtship, sharing a personal story and offering advice to women on how to approach sensitive topics before marriage. In a candid Facebook post on April 16, Jemaimah encouraged women to ask their fiancés tough questions about their sexual history, preferences, and even the size of their genitalia, in order to avoid future relationship issues.

Raised in the Deeper Life Bible Church, Jemaimah described how conversations about sex were largely absent from church discussions, despite many members, including the pastor’s wife, having large families. She expressed concern about this lack of open dialogue, which, she believes, leads to misunderstandings and disappointments in marriages. Reflecting on her experience as a lawyer, Jemaimah pointed out that one of the leading causes of divorce she has witnessed is related to sex, particularly when sexual issues remain unaddressed before marriage.

In her Facebook post, she advocated for “sexual sincerity” in courtship, stressing the importance of addressing sexual matters early on in a relationship. According to Jemaimah, while maintaining sexual purity before marriage is essential, it is equally important for couples to openly discuss sexual expectations and concerns. She urged women to ask their partners specific questions, including about their sexual history, whether they’ve had any sexual health issues, and even more intimate questions about their preferences and desires.

One of the most controversial pieces of advice she gave was asking about the size of a man’s penis, a question she emphasized as “VERY VERY IMPORTANT.” Jemaimah revealed that she almost married a man who had a “micro penis,” a fact he did not initially disclose. She recalled how the man eventually opened up after a period of prayer, which ultimately spared her from a potentially difficult marriage. This personal experience led her to urge men who may have concerns about their sexual health, particularly regarding erectile dysfunction or size, to be upfront with their fiancées. She warned that failing to disclose such information is a form of deception that could lead to serious problems down the line.

Jemaimah also addressed women who are still virgins, telling them not to dismiss the importance of these questions, even if they believe they don’t apply to them. She cautioned that they might regret not asking these questions once they are married and discover that their partner’s sexual performance does not meet their expectations. She shared that many women who entered marriage as virgins later found themselves in adulterous relationships due to such unresolved sexual issues.

The post concluded with a strong message urging women to be fully informed about their partner’s sexual health and desires before committing to marriage. Jemaimah emphasized that being unaware of potential sexual incompatibilities could lead to stress, disappointment, and even infidelity, advising women to “prayerfully demand answers” to avoid being blindsided by unexpected issues after the wedding.