“How I Was Stopped from Saving My Friend’s Life” – Doctor on Ex-Customs Officer Who Died After Collapsing at Wife’s Birthday Celebration

Dr. Rasheed Olaniyi, a close friend of the late Otunba Kunle Akinyele, has expressed deep frustration and sorrow over the circumstances surrounding Akinyele’s sudden death during his wife’s 60th birthday celebration, alleging he was physically prevented from administering potentially life-saving CPR at the scene.

In an emotional interview, Dr. Olaniyi recounted the tragic incident, stating that Akinyele slumped during the church service, prompting him to rush forward and begin CPR. However, he was blocked by some attendees who, unaware of the medical urgency, discouraged intervention, fearing he might harm Akinyele. “They were shouting, ‘Don’t injure him!’ and physically pushed me away. I kept explaining that CPR could involve breaking ribs—it’s about saving a life,” said Olaniyi, who had been friends with Akinyele for over 40 years.

According to Olaniyi, by the time Akinyele was taken to the hospital and he was able to assist the medical team, it was already too late. He strongly believes that had he been allowed to perform CPR immediately, the outcome might have been different. He described the moment as chaotic, with untrained individuals overriding his attempts to help despite others vouching for his medical expertise.

Dr. Olaniyi also shared insight into Akinyele’s health, noting that he was slightly hypertensive but not critically ill. He said the late Customs officer had no history of asthma and only once reported mild cardiomyopathy, which was deemed non-life-threatening after specialist evaluation. He suspects that stress from planning the party, and possibly skipping his usual blood pressure checks, may have triggered a fatal spike. He also recalled that one of Akinyele’s drivers had earlier noticed him looking unwell in the car and attempted to help by pouring water on him.

The doctor dismissed speculation that the traditional attire (agbada) might have been a factor, emphasizing instead the importance of regular medical monitoring and stress management. “Hypertension, even mild, can suddenly lead to cardiopulmonary failure if not managed well,” he said, urging Nigerians to take their health seriously and reduce stress, especially during emotionally and physically demanding events.

Remembering his friend fondly, Olaniyi described Akinyele as kind, generous, and full of life—a man who cared deeply for his family, staff, and friends. Akinyele retired as a Deputy Controller of Customs in 2023 and had only just begun his post-service life. He was 61 and is survived by his wife and five daughters.